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Name: dale
Country: Philippines
Metro: Manila
Birthday: 1/9/1984
Gender: Female
Interests: SPONGEBOB/Brad Pitt/Chris Klein/BAMBOO/SANDWICH/Blue Onion/ malate and eastwood nyts!!!/PARTY...PARTY!!!/coffee/movies/booksyahoo messenger/IRC/singing/pink/decorating my room/accounting/pasta/m****n_8/JERKINS
Expertise: i so much into poetry and writing short stories... eventually i'll be working on a novel and i hope it play well in d market.... i sing well too!!!=)
Occupation: Accounting/Finance
Industry: Business
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Yahoo:  kleinchik0104@yahoo.com
Member Since:
12/10/2004
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| Paki-digest...this is very good.
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1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and his
behavior.
3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a
man's character, leave him alone.
4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you
from heartache.
5. Stop trying to change yourself for a
relationship that's not meant to be.
6. Don't force an attraction.
7. Slower is better.
8. Never live your life for a man before you find
what makes you truly happy.
9. If a relationship ends because the man
was not treating you as you deserve then heck no
you
can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a
friend.
10. Have faith in God regarding your
relationship, but don't let faith make you stupid.
God does things decent and in order.
11. Don't settle.
12. If you feel like he is stringing you along,
then he probably is.
13. If he keeps changing his mind about the
relationship--take that as a BIG sign that he is
unstable. Do you really want to be with a man
like that?
14. Don't stay because you think "it will get
better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later
for staying when things are not better.
15. Honorable men take care of their
business and aren't involved in a
whole lot of mess.
16. The only person you can control in a
relationship is you.
17. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps
you; he doesn't want you.
18. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children
by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry
them when he got them pregnant, why would he
treat you any differently?
19. You really do have to kiss a few frogs
before finding the prince.
20. Always put yourself and your happiness
first.
21. Always have your own set of friends
separate from his.
22. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats
you. If something bothers you, speak up.
23. If he doesn't call, he just isn't that
interested.
24. Be honest and upfront.
25. Know when to cut the cord, don't be strung
along.
26. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role".
Remove yourself from the situation to let him figure
things out (but don't wait for him, move on).
27. If you want to have a clue as to how he will
treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in
his family (not just mom).
28. There's more than physical abuse, there's
emotional and mental abuse. If he causes
any of them...flee.
29. You cannot change a man's behaviors.
Change comes from within.
30. Don't let him place rules on you that he is
not willing to follow himself -- double-standard.
31. Don't EVER make him feel he is more
important than you are...even if he has more
education or in a better job.
32. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is
a man, nothing more nothing less.
33. Demand respect and if he can't give it, he
can't have you!
34. Don't compete with other woman, but be
aware that men are attracted to what they see.
35. If you think he is cheating, he probably is.
Confront him right away and if you feel he's
lying, let him go.
36. Actions speak louder than words.
37. Never let a man define who you are.
38. Never rely on a man for compliments,
look to yourself for that.
39. Never borrow someone else's man.
40. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
41. Just because he says he loves you,
doesn't mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't
mean that you are meant to be with him.
42. To use painful hard-won wisdom -- 'get it
right' the next time.
43. Know that you deserve to be the number
one person in the life of the #1person in your life.
44. Love is a verb ...
45. Learn to give up your lifelong task of
trying to make someone unavailable-available,
someone ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-
loving.
46. A man will only treat you the way you
ALLOW him to treat you.
47. All men are NOT dogs.
48. You should not be the one doing all the
bending...compromise is a two way street.
49. If you don't love self...you can't love
anyone else.
50. You cannot mend someone else's broken
heart.
51. You need time to heal between
relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage...deal with your issues before
pursuing a new relationship.
52. You should never look for someone to
COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of
two WHOLE individuals...look for someone
complementary...not supplementary.
53. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out
to be Mr. Right.
54. NEVER give more in a relationship than
you are getting out of it.
55. Never become your man's "therapist".
56. When actions and words conflict, believe
the actions. Respond to the actions.
57. A real healthy relationship requires two
people. One person can end it - but it takes
two to make it work.
58. Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving
type"...when a man loves you there is nothing in
this world
(within reason) that he wouldn't do for you.
59. Make him miss you sometimes...when a
man always know where you are,
and you're always readily available to him he
takes it for granted.
60. Give him his space...let him go out with
his boys, don't pressure him to spend time with
you, You cant force a man to hang out with
you.
61. If you wouldn't allow your daughter to be
with him you shouldn't.
62. Never let a man know everything. He will
use it against you later.
63. Never move into his mother's house.
64. Provide financially for yourself and don't
depend on anyone.
65. Never co-sign for a man.
66. Never believe you have the perfect guy
and he is so innocent.
67. Never spoil your man; let him spoil you.
68. Never let a man mess up your credit.
69. When it's time to let go; let go.
70. Good men should be treated like good
men.
71. Don't play games.
72. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't
give you everything that you need.
73. Keep him in your radar but get to know
others.
74. Compatibility in terms of educational
attainment, values, beliefs, personal and
career goals, and socioeconomic status, are
important.
75. Never date a guy who wears colored
contacts.
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this is one of the most heartbreaking stories i'v ever read and it really made me cry just after the last line!!! it seems really frustrating!!!!
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Below is the winning piece in the latest contest
sa UP Creative writing
contest.
its been 4 months since i saw him and talagang
namimiss ko na siya...
pero
what can i do? it seems that i have loved the
wrong person.... but
still
the
pain keeps on hurting me and kung walang
magbibigay ng gamot para dito
sa
nararamdaman ko.... baka mamatay na ako....
to give you a background about my life,
everthing seems to be fine
except
dun sa time na dumating na sa buhay ko yung
hinayupak na lalake na
yon....
hehehehe.... kung curious kayo about dun sa
guy... bestfriend ko po yon
kaso
lang iba na ang nangyari as time passes by.....
classmate ko sya nung highschool. pards pa nga
ang tawagan namen.... o
db
ang sweet? di na ako iba sa kanya and ganon na
ren sya sa aken....
kung
di
nga lang ako naging babae baka naiuwi na ako
nun sa bahay nila and
baka
lahat ng gawaing pang brusko eh ipagawa na nun
sa ken eh..... pero
cyempre
mukha pa ren naman akong babae noh!!
highskul cyempre may pr om.... wala cyang date,
wla ren ako.... i know
that
he wanted to invite me to be his date pero ang
ogag nga kasi nun kaya
the
last minute tsaka lang sya nag-ask. he went to
our house... nakamotor
po
sya and medyo pawisan pero infairness....
mabango pa ren....
he ask my permission to see my dress for the
prom.... cyempre para
maloka
sya sa aken at may konting surprise... i
refuse.... o sige, medyo na
frustrate sya pero hindi yon naging hadlang
para invite nya ko.... sa
ganda
ko na to..... cyempre ang dami munang pa-
echeng.... hanggang sa
tanungin
nya ako kung may date na ba me.... e kung di ba
naman siya abnormal
eh....
papayag ba akong makipagdate sa iba eh sya lang
ang gusto ko.... lam
mo
yon... sarap sampalin.... so in short, papilit
pa ba ako? syempre.....
the night of my life came, i was so pretty sabi
ng nang-uuto kong
nanay...
pero naniwala lang ako nang sya na ang
nagsabi.... blush ako ever....
kahit alam kong maganda ako since birth
(hehehehe) iba pa ren yung sa
kanya
galing diba?
we enjoyed that night and lalo ko lang
napatunayan sa sarili ko na
mahal
ko
na pala ang hinayupak na bestfrend ko......
syempre ano pa ba ang sunod na event sa prom
kundi ang graduation na
db?
the night before the graduation, we talked on
the phone na para bang
it
would be the last time na maririnig namen ang
boses ng isat-isa.....
ive
waited for the moment na mabanggit nya na may
feelings din sya and
hindi
naman ako nagkamali.... tinanong nya ako kung
may possibilty daw na
maging
kame.... i know na maiinis kayo sa ken dahil
alam nyo ba ang sagot ko?
ah,
eh.... hindi pwede kase bestfrends tayo eh....
yung mga anak na lang
naten
yung ipag- partner naten.... sa isip-isip
ko.... ang tanga! pano ko
nasabi
ang ganong words? pero wala na
akong magagawa..... alam namang bawiin ko pa eh
di nahuli naman ako
db?
pe
ro ang tanga ko talga....
cyempre college na.... im so proud to say na
napunta naman ako sa
magandang
school and take note... pare ho kame ng
skul..... ano to? kailangan
bang
ituloy ang naudlot na pagmamahalan namen?....
hehehe....
nagkaboyfriend ako for a year and a half....
minahal ko sya pero there
are
these conflicts and problems na di na kayang
ayusin.... in short....
nagbreak kame.....
i guess god meant that to happen kasi yon din
yung time na nagkita
kame
ng
bestfrend ko..... sa sobrang miss namen ang
isa't-isa.... sabay na
kameng
umuwi, kumain, pumasok..... im happy pero
parang lalo ko lang
pinahirapan
ang sarili ko dahil my feelings for that guy
grows each and everytime
that
we are together... buti na lang magaling akong
magtago at magpigil....
hehehe.... bilib kayo noh?.....
one morning, im so busy preparing my project
that would be pass on
that
same day.... alam kong dumati ng na sya at nasa
likuran ko na ang
mokong
pero dah il sobrang pressure sa project....
gusto ko man syang
dambahan...
cyempre mamayang gabi na lang di ba? hehehe....
di ko sya masyadong
napansin.....
may inabot syang sulat sa aken and he asked if
i could join him sa
lunch.... i said yes.... then, alis na cya....
alam naman kc nyang im
busy.....
when i was about to enter the room, somebody
bumped me and my precious
project fell... gusto ko mang magalet... what
can i do db? instead i
ask
my prof to give me another chance to do my
project.... naalala ko si
mokong.... the lunch date.... kinuha ko ang
cell ko to text him that i
cant come to our meeting.... e kaso.... pag
tinamaan k nga naman ng
malas.... check operator service daw.... i
tried to look for friends
or
other kakilala pero malas that day talaga....
and so i took my lunch all by my self....
naalala ko yung letter....
hinanap ko sa bag... WALA !!!! bumalik me sa
corridor praying na andon
pa
yung sulat.... wala ren.... god! why? minsan
lang magbigay ng sulat
yon....
nawala pa.... dont know how to tell him about
the letter....
and so days and weeks passed, pag nagkikita
kame... di nya ako
pinapansin... ako, i tried to talk to him pero
alam kong may kasalanan
ako
pero ganon ba kalaki ang nagawa kong di
pagpunta at ganon na lang ang
iwas
nya?... sige... hinayaan ko na lang....
months na ang binilang... i heard that he was
dating a girl from the
same
school that we are in... masakit.... na sa iba
ko pa narinig na sila
na.... mas masakit na wala na akong halaga sa
kanya.....
basta... ilang araw din yon na ganon ang
nararamdaman ko.... weeks....
months.... gagraduate na po ako.... i wonder
what's instore for me in
my
last day in school.... and so i thought na
puntahan yung favorite hang
out
namen.... when i was about to get near the
place.... i saw him... with
the
girl.... umiiyak ang bruha but i cant hear what
they are talking
about....
so ive decided to get out of that place before
my tears burst out....
and
then a common frend ang sumalubong sa aken....
saying na buntis ang
girl.... syempre.... durog na durog ang puso
ko.... kung kaya nyo lang
ma-imagine yung naramdaman ko.....
the night of that same day.... naloka ang lola
nyo.... nagparamdam ang
mokong pagkaraan ng pagkatagal-tagal na
panahon... i thought it was
something good for me... for us.... pero i was
wrong.... so wrong.....
he
gave me a wedding invitation and isa ako sa
bridesmaids..... the
girl...
she was waiting in the car.... o db? dati
motor lang ngaun... car na....
and so the wedding came.... maganda po ako
nun.... sabi ng nanay ko
pero
wala ng nagsecond the motion eh.... so naniwala
na lang ako sa nanay
ko.... then, there was this professor who came
to see me.... he handed
over
a letter with my name carefully printed on the
enveloped.... he said
that
he looked for the owner of that letter kaso
lang po malaki po ang skul
namin kaya mahirap magkahanapan db? and so nung
nakita nya ang name ko
sa
invitation, he decided to bring the letter
thinking that it could save
souls... daw....
and so i was about to open the letter when the
priest ask kung sino daw
ang
tututol... dedma ako.... alam namang manggulo
pa ko noh....
binasa ko na ang letter..... nakakatouch po
talaga.... he opened up
his
feelings for me.... hoping na meron din daw
akong feelings for him....
he
ask that i f i will show up to our hang - out
the next day after he
gave
his
letter, then it means that i also have feelings
for him and that he
would
love me for the rest of our
lives.... but if i wont.... then he will never
open that topic
again....
he
pleaded to me na sana pumunta ako... ...
if only i have that letter.... if only i knew
about it.... kung di
lang
ako
clumsy and carelss to keep that letter...
things would be
diffrent....
if
only.....
and so i heard the priest announced the couple
as husband and wife....
ang
sakit......
picture taking..... gusto mang sumabog ng
nararamdaman ko.... as you
know.... magaling akong magpigil.... pero
masakit po talaga....
sobra......
after the picture taking...... niyakap ako ng
bestfrend ko.... ang
higpit.... and teary eyed nyang cnabi na....
i still love you....... |
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| Never say "STOP!"
Even if you think it's your final destination.
Only God knows where you should be...
And even if that is where you belong
Never STOP!
Because life has lot's to offer when you're there!
Never say " I give up!"
When the fight is not yet done.
Giving up is losing.
It is better to be dead and remembered,
For fighting until death.
Than being alive... LOSER
And forgotten!
Never say " There's no hope!"
Because if there's really none...
There will be no living creature existing in the universe.
Hope is what our souls breathe!
That's why...
We live, not to STOP
We live, not to GIVE UP
We live...
To HOPE and nourish each others souls! | | |
| my friend and i share the same birthday... lyk me she was sad b'coz
anly few of her friends remembered her... wats mor... the person she
loved so much seems to ignore her existence. He just greeted her
plainly... HAPPY BIRTHDAY, nothing more! He didn't even cared to ask
about her plans. She wanted to know if something was wrong but scared
to have an argument, so she didn't. She just endured the pain of her
non-existence to her DEAR... but things haven/t been working out so
finally she txted and asked...
It was only 2 days after her birthday... and she had the hardest blow
hit on her! The perfect birthday present an Asshole could give!!!
DUMPING her for no valid reason and through a text message! Wasn't it
the safest way a guy with no balls could escape.... after all the SHIT
he has told her and the plans they came up with, which obviosly came
all the way to the toilet bowl!
Trully my friend and I share the same life... and we both share the
same talent... finding the perfect JERK!!! We never learn... been there
before.... done the same fuck again!!!
Well what do you know... it's fun loving a jerk after all!!! And
really... she loves her DEAR so much!!! And she'll be stupid enough to
fight for that dumbass... and have him back again!!!!
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REMINISCING!!!!
 crazy 
Ano/Sino Naalala MO Kapag.....
actually.. ano-ano/sino-sino.....
01.Nagluluto ka ng Pansit Canton? c MARVIN SANTOS
favorite nia un eh!!! pti ung fried rice n
nilu2to ko!!!
02.Umuulan? - cia prin... lgi nia kinakanta dti
ung theme song ng channel 2 na png rainy
season!!!
03.FX - c tintin, kmuntikan n kc cia mkladkad
nun eh...
04. sumasakay ka ng tricycle?- c MARK
05. nakikita mo si Spongebob? -- c jules, c cyra
at hiel (mga kapatid ko)... sbay sbay kc nmin
pinapanood un eh!!!
06. Nasa public transportation ka? - c jr at
bekbek...ung iniiwas nla sa handle ung kmay
ko..hehe..,pasmado kc!!!
07.Kumakain ka ng ice cream? dan erics...
official icecream nung hi-skul
08. eh kapag pulburon? -- mama ko...tinda xa nun
dti e at kinukupit nmin!!! luv u ma!!!
09. Nakakakita ka ng moon? -- aaay... c MARVIN
ulit... hehe!!! guess y?
10. nakakita ka ng Stars? -- haha...xa din...
luv nmin mg star gazing eh!!!
12. Nakahawak ka ng bola? -- oO nmn...more dan
hwak...;)
13.May basagan palayok -- ....
14.Nakakita ka ng gulay? --sibuyas... pnka hate
ko un eh
15. nakainom ka ng yakult?-- lagi ko un baon
nung elementary
16. nakasakay ka sa kotse -- c joan at ang kbado
niang pagmamaneho sa filinvest... ngasgas 2loy
nia isang van dun...tpos pinin2rhan nia ng
liquid paper kotse nia...
17.nakakakita ka ng kumot?-- marami e...
18.nakakakita ka ng mag-syota? -- WALA!!!
19.nakakarinig/tumutugtog ng gitara? -- c IRA
CRUZ ng BAMBOO at c MARC ABAYA ng SANDWICH!!!
20.Naglalaro ka ng game sa cellphone?
21.Nakikinig ka ng music? -- c tintin at ang
gasgas na cd ng bamboo
22.Nasa Damuhan ka? -- ang adventures nmin sa
trece martires
23.Nasa gitna ka ng basketball court? -- c Dale
Santos at Ronjay Enrile!!!
24. Nakakita ka ng hair Gel? -- ung cotton na
nktago sa memory box ko!!!;)
25. Nakabasa ka ng greeting card? -- hi-skul
days!!!
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